My Actual Day

is on the 7th of January 2011

This is the beginning of all-the-future-random busi-ness-agreements-disagreements

Just because I am a Chinese whom owns a Western brain

I thinks that the garter removing tradition is rather fun when it is a total no-no in Chinese family

English

English is a language which is widely understood. Counting countries which value their mother tongue a lot with names like France, Japan, China and some others other countries has recognized English as an important language and had a very important status in education and business.

Does the preference of speaking the mother tongue implies that English is weaker or it is just the cultural value is stronger? Culture itself has brought in a very heavy influence and is something not easily changed overnight. You can't teach a person to speak in perfect English with perfect grammar in just a week not to mention a single day.

After 14 days

After 14 days away from work it feels different to be at work again....

It is February now but to me it is still only the beginning of year 2011.... Hence i guess it is not too late to have my new year resolutions now.... making it happen is what matters the most...

At this age... i must learn to appreciate the things that I have in hand... Not meeting up targets does not mean that I am not competent at times... maybe it is just not time yet... it is a very subjective matter of discussion and it would always be happier to look at the brighter side

I kept having a mingling mind... not sure if my soul is the same but if i can learn to appreciate I believe they will settle down with peace in mind.... Having dreams and ambitions are not wrong... trying and working hard to make them come true is good effort... but in this world nothing comes exactly they way you wish it were... but learning to accept and making things better than what you have counts the most...

I was told that I am a very soft person and it is just a polite way of saying that I am not able to stand up or to speak up what I think is right... Not speaking does not mean that I am not competent nor that I do not have the ability... but learning to speak is just making others understand you in the way they could... it is learning to live with the culture that you are in... to work in the way that is desired for survival.... you may not agree with it but it is not wrong to understand how things worked.... It is important to learn to speak in the language understand by others

There are a lot of dirty people who sometimes you feel that they are so unethical... this is just the way they do things... I am not going to marry them nor are they going to be my in law torturing me for the rest of my life.. there is no reason for me to judge... but if i were to insist on judging in this manner... it does not means that no matter where i go i will not judge... therefore the next resolution i need is to judge myself instead and to do well instead of getting heart sake of other's people's pain... it will just proof how successful they are in injecting their influence in you....

It is more about being a successful living being in the environment

It is Chinese New Year Eve

It is chinese new year eve... and it did not

feel anything like the previous year

I wonder why...